When Australian model Annalize Braakensiek was found dead in her Sydney apartment last week, it was impossible not to think of Charlotte Dawson, who had met a tremendously similar end four years earlier.
Both were Amazonian blondes whose luster had just disappeared in the Middle Ages – Braakensiek was 46 and Dawson 47 – and had appeared blessed by the kind of lifestyles the rest of us only dreamed of.
They made tantalizing bites on social media: Instagramming beautiful bodies on white sand, gravity defying yoga poses, perfectly styled organic meals, evenings with equally beautiful friends – all with the time of their lives.
But their thousand smiles and luminous skin masked the chronic depression that paralyzed every woman behind closed doors.
Although neither of them kept their confrontation with the "black dog" a secret, few realized that their suffering had intensified to the point that they could no longer bear it or survive.
"Social media was the best and worst thing that could happen to Charlotte and Annalize and I think it contributed to both of their deaths," reporter and writer Ros Reines told Reuters.
"Both had a difficult education and perhaps because both were so hungry for attention and love that they needed constantly and sought validation from people they did not know about social media."
In the case of Dawson, often bad sparring sessions were performed with trolls ̵
In a 2012 interview with 60 minutes the former model and television host revealed her sense of powerlessness for to have been the goal of such cruel online jokes, but she said she felt obligated
"Charlotte has been nonstop and has been told so many times not to commit, not to answer, but she could not leave her alone ", says Reines. "It was a constraint."
Dawson declared 60 minutes the "fierce" exchanges played on Twitter. She told her to come home one night after a party and to have found a series of messages that encouraged her to "stick her head in a toaster" or simply "kill herself".
He fought against abuse until the early hours of the morning until, defeated, he tweeted a picture of a hand holding the tablets with the message "you won x", following it with the message: "I hope this ends the misery".
The abuse led to Dawson's admission to the hospital. Finally, on February 22, 2014, she hanged herself in her luxury seafront apartment at Sydney's Woolloomooloo.
In the case of Braakensiek, the only star of the cult television program Fat Pizza had remained in the homes of friends for the better part of a year after the disintegration of his marriage of 16 years.
Just a few weeks before his death, on January 6, he bought a new home in the suburb of Potts Point in the city center and seemed optimistic to have his space again.
But the melancholy remained and he shared his struggles in a series of impressive messages on Instagram.
In a recent interview with The Daily Edition complained that when he tried to talk to people about her depression, they did not want to hear about it. As if his life had been so lucky, he had no right to be sad.
"It was the … negative reaction that people had to be depressed and fall under the dark cloud," he said.
"In many ways my life is wonderful, for which I am extremely grateful and there is no doubt, but when you suffer this kind of thing for people to say how you allow yourself – you are a model, you are a millionaire, you are around the world.This has nothing to do with this. "
Reines believes that the pressure to maintain appearances, to remain relevant and required in a sea of young and beautiful" influencers "of Instagram to the the end broke.
"You know, I saw the title" Sydney model dead "and I had such a shock when I saw it was Annalize," he said.
"But you know, I look back to the times I spent with her and she kept wanting to push herself more and more.
" It took a lot of work to look at how she did and to keep it. It rubbed and rubbed from head to toe with circular motions to fight cellulite and emphasized the importance of making saunas.
"He taught me how to lay on the jambs and how to look for the perfect light.
" He was tormented by his weight and everything revolved around social media, so if he went to eat it would have to be a restaurant where the food was instagrammable. "
" It might seem like a wonderful life on Instagram but in reality it was an endless and punitive cycle. "
The cause of the death of Braakensiek has not yet been released The police are preparing a report for the coroner
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